Post by Hugo the Elder on Jun 27, 2018 18:45:50 GMT
I'm sure most would agree with the first part of your statement, but it's not always that simple or straight forward.
'The benefit cap, zero-hours contracts, and now universal credit have all exacerbated the debt burden on people already struggling to eat and pay rent.'
www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2018/jan/16/government-policy-poor-people-debt-benefits-universal-credit
www.theguardian.com/society/2017/jun/29/biggest-ever-study-of-food-banks-warns-use-likely-to-increase
www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2018/jun/15/universal-credit-colossal-catastrophe-national-audit-office
metro.co.uk/2018/01/30/parents-skipping-meals-can-feed-children-7271547/
www.standard.co.uk/help-a-hungry-child/quarter-of-parents-fear-they-cant-afford-to-feed-their-child-a3705101.html
I am working! I don't have a problem with that as I am grateful that I am healthy enough to be able to work. So we come to the people who are healthy but dont work.My take on this is that they are not thinking of themselves enough to improve their lot and that is a compliment not a criticism. I know a chap who lives in the bushes in a suburb of Bristol and when I see him his topic of conversation is world affairs. He loses me with all of that. My point here is he is obviously intelligent but he's looking at the bigger picture instead of the smaller one, himself. The thing I've learnt in life is that few people care about you so you have to care about yourself and if you have one your family too. The government don't care, the banks and other financial institutions don't care they just think about themselves and thats what we must do especially if we are in trouble. Some of the best people I have met have been poor, but I have noticed they have put others first, a fine quality, but they have neglected themselves. The homeless ask for change but most people don't really care even if they throw £1 in your hat on their way to Costa where they throw £5 into Costa's hat for a cup of tea and a piece of cake.My point about responsibility is that if your in the sh** you focus on the smaller picture, yourself and your family and this could mean really putting yourself out to do this and getting out of the comfort zone of benefits which isn't that comfortable anyway. Expecting the government or society to look after your children is like asking the fire brigade to rescue your children from your burning house while you stand around and watch. I am on the side of people who are struggling, but they have to get on their own side as well imho.
"The thing is no matter what a person's upbringing and life experiences are when we reach adulthood we are responsible for our behaviour"
That only works if you are actually taught that.
Sadly in some cases we are on our 3rd generation of career welfare families brought up on expectation and entitlement rather than responsibility and respect.