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Post by inee on Apr 1, 2015 21:47:21 GMT
Havent posted for a bit as to be honest even getting out of bed is hell at the mo, My depressions has taken a massive nose dive
to the point of i really dont care if i wake up anymore, but i would like to thank every single person who helped wendy and i last year. as to be honest if it hadnt been for you lot i wouldnt be here today, really lost the will to do anything at xmas, as it was increadably hard to get through the day, and march n april are very hard months to get through, not only is it a difficult 2 months it also has a significance for me and wendy i a way not many could understand ,what jon the ffs and others did was absolutely wonderfull and we are forever in your debt, to be able to say goodbye to Anne-marie Irene in the quaters, with her coffin drapped in a rovers flag made it easier, they say it gets easier does it f**k. all ive done in the last year is cry a few times a day, everything is just so empty without her here, anyway im blubbering like a gert puff so will once again say thanks to everyone from the bottom of our hearts
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Post by Gas4life!!! on Apr 1, 2015 22:04:26 GMT
Well its great to talk let it out amongst friends, im sure everyone here will always be here to support you both, one big family together thats the GAS way, keep ya head up if you need to release or vent anything someone will always be here to reply and help you both through.
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Post by Dr Gas on Apr 1, 2015 22:11:40 GMT
From my experience, it is great that you feel able to post now. The fact that it is a message of thanks is very humbling. As I think was said last year, many of us on the forum felt privileged that you and Wendy allowed us to become part of your family.
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Post by mehewmagic on Apr 1, 2015 22:11:49 GMT
Nice to see you back.
Take it easy mate.
One big stupid family here.
personally I find the spring helps for me, and the more sunshine, getting out and about etc. Thinking of long summer days etc. Festivals. Cider. Lge 2...
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Post by Dr Gas on Apr 1, 2015 22:13:13 GMT
Nice to see you back. Take it easy mate. One big stupid family here. personally I find the spring helps for me, and the more sunshine, getting out and about etc. Thinking of long summer days etc. Festivals. Cider. Lge 2...There is always someone who gets carried away, innit  |
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Post by glostergas on Apr 1, 2015 23:10:53 GMT
It was great to meet you at the ffs meal and what a great day it was , Try to stay strong for yourself and family and I'm sure Anne marie wouldn't want you suffering ,all the best and hope to see you down the Mem at some point UTG
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Post by baggins on Apr 2, 2015 11:10:02 GMT
Havent posted for a bit as to be honest even getting out of bed is hell at the mo, My depressions has taken a massive nose dive to the point of i really dont care if i wake up anymore, but i would like to thank every single person who helped wendy and i last year. as to be honest if it hadnt been for you lot i wouldnt be here today, really lost the will to do anything at xmas, as it was increadably hard to get through the day, and march n april are very hard months to get through, not only is it a difficult 2 months it also has a significance for me and wendy i a way not many could understand ,what jon the ffs and others did was absolutely wonderfull and we are forever in your debt, to be able to say goodbye to Anne-marie Irene in the quaters, with her coffin drapped in a rovers flag made it easier, they say it gets easier does it feck. all ive done in the last year is cry a few times a day, everything is just so empty without her here, anyway im blubbering like a gert puff so will once again say thanks to everyone from the bottom of our hearts With all of us here, you're never on your own Mate. |
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Post by blackthorngas on Apr 2, 2015 11:59:00 GMT
Just being able to post on here again is a glimmer of hope. And believe me,it does get better. You are still in the very early days of bereavement so don't do yourself down. Everyone is different,there's no magic date by which you should be feeling better. Your gas family are all rooting for you.
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Post by CheshireGas on Apr 2, 2015 12:09:29 GMT
Inee thanks for the post. Very best wishes to you and your family, no harm in shedding a tear matey.
I have sent you a pm.
Take care pal
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Post by Jon the Stripe on Apr 2, 2015 14:09:11 GMT
Best wishes Inee lad i hope you improve slowly and manage to find some happiness. And please pass on our best wishes to Wendy, i know she is your tower of strength. A small ray of sunshine can be that our Matty Taylor who this season is sponsored "In Loving Memory of Ann-Marie Irene" could be the man who brings some happiness in a small way, and i'm sure if he scores a few between now and the end of the season that guide us to promotion try to look upon him as saying....
"that one's for you Ann-Marie" ..little comfort i know, but little smiles can help a lot through depression. Stepping stones mate, stepping stones. Good luck Inee.
Those we loved don't go away, they walk beside you everyday.
Unseen, Unheard, but always near, still loved, still missed and very dear.
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Post by Newton Abbot Gas on Apr 2, 2015 17:49:45 GMT
Hang on in there mate i lost our Dad last June and two weeks ago my Mum passed away ,it's hard to think that i'm never going to see them again but they are always with me in my heart and in my thoughts that will never go away.
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