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Post by mrgasman on Nov 21, 2023 17:37:50 GMT
This one was a tough watch. Reminded me of my Dad as we sadly have been through this with losing my sister in the same way at 29. Love DC and hope one day he is back in our managerial box.
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Post by wider on Nov 22, 2023 0:10:47 GMT
I haven’t read the interview, I can’t bring myself to do it. I lost my daughter just over 2/12 years ago(different circumstances) but the heartbreak, devastation and anger (for me) is still there. As for getting up each day, that’s a struggle but there are usually other people relying on you to carry on. I loved DC and would love to see him come back one day, what a man💙 Absolutely agree with all of this. I lost my son aged 29 ten years ago. At that point effectively I lost my wife, my daughter and myself too. Somehow my daughter and myself clawed back to some sort of a different ‘normality’ and carry on. Sadly my wife hasn’t managed and stays ‘broken’. It’s very hard to keep encouraging her when it hurts so much. She now has developed memory problems. We are told it’s not dementia even though it presents similarly but my daughter and I feel it’s that she just wants to ‘forget’. It is actually part of you that died not just figuratively. I wish DC all the best and that he continues to manage - himself and clubs - well. |
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Post by warehamgas on Nov 22, 2023 0:31:55 GMT
I haven’t read the interview, I can’t bring myself to do it. I lost my daughter just over 2/12 years ago(different circumstances) but the heartbreak, devastation and anger (for me) is still there. As for getting up each day, that’s a struggle but there are usually other people relying on you to carry on. I loved DC and would love to see him come back one day, what a man💙 Absolutely agree with all of this. I lost my son aged 29 ten years ago. At that point effectively I lost my wife, my daughter and myself too. Somehow my daughter and myself clawed back to some sort of a different ‘normality’ and carry on. Sadly my wife hasn’t managed and stays ‘broken’. It’s very hard to keep encouraging her when it hurts so much. She now has developed memory problems. We are told it’s not dementia even though it presents similarly but my daughter and I feel it’s that she just wants to ‘forget’. It is actually part of you that died not just figuratively. I wish DC all the best and that he continues to manage - himself and clubs - well. My sympathies to both of you. Brave of you both to share. We come on here and share opinions and stuff but it’s all bubblegum stuff isn’t it? Not overly important, family always comes first, second and third. I can only imagine what you must have gone through and continue to do so daily. Good luck and best wishes as you provide the strength for others when you feel your own pain. That is brave. UTG! |
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Post by wider on Nov 22, 2023 19:37:08 GMT
[/quote]My sympathies to both of you. Brave of you both to share. We come on here and share opinions and stuff but it’s all bubblegum stuff isn’t it? Not overly important, family always comes first, second and third. I can only imagine what you must have gone through and continue to do so daily. Good luck and best wishes as you provide the strength for others when you feel your own pain. That is brave.
UTG![/quote]
Just bucked up courage to venture back - THANK YOU SO MUCH!
UTG indeed!
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Post by willytopp84 on Nov 25, 2023 20:55:28 GMT
What a heart wrenching read that interview was! Makes me love the man even more than I already did.
Saw Cheltenham won 2-0 today what a cracking job he's doing 👍
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Post by brisgas123 on Nov 25, 2023 21:30:34 GMT
Doing a smashing job at cheltenham top man
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