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Post by midlandgas213 on Feb 8, 2017 22:41:22 GMT
To all forum members and guests I want to apologise for some of my recent posts on here which have been stupid and unessessary critical of Dc and others
i have been suffering a lot of depression lately and have just lost my dad (another gashead gone to dream with Irene) and have been upsetting those closest to me and my loved family which includes the gas army , my wife mother and daughter have all taken my wrath
so it is about time I said sorry to all
utg
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Post by pirateman on Feb 8, 2017 22:49:07 GMT
Are you getting some help with the depression mate?
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Post by Antonio Fargas on Feb 8, 2017 22:51:03 GMT
I wouldn't worry about this place. It's only the internet.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 8, 2017 22:56:05 GMT
Many of us have been there, look after yourself, be positive and keep posting...
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Post by toddy1953 on Feb 8, 2017 23:05:51 GMT
Difficult times, you look after yourself & family pal, all the best!!
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Post by 2nd May 1990 on Feb 8, 2017 23:19:14 GMT
Fair play for that, mate. Hope you get the help you need. I've been there. Still have my moments, but you can get out of it. I know it seems trite to say, but talk to people, whoever you feel able to. Don't bottle it in.
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Post by Okebournegas on Feb 8, 2017 23:58:45 GMT
Fair play for that, mate. Hope you get the help you need. I've been there. Still have my moments, but you can get out of it. I know it seems trite to say, but talk to people, whoever you feel able to. Don't bottle it in. Spot on post mate , fair play ! |
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Post by allgasandgaiters on Feb 9, 2017 0:08:10 GMT
Takes a brave man to admit to that Midland - all the best with getting yourself straight. Let's hope DC can cheer you up in the next few weeks. UTG
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Post by stevethepirate on Feb 9, 2017 1:42:47 GMT
I know how you feel mate. Lost my dad on Boxing Day. He was a Gashead of many years and we used to go to games together. Just remember you are not alone here. We are here for you.
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Post by Jon the Stripe on Feb 9, 2017 6:22:29 GMT
We'll done mate. You're already taking steps forward by posting this. Use the tools you'll be picking up in your mind as the days go by. Don't worry about tomorrow cause tomorrow will look after itself, feeling like you do is completely natural.
When you question your negative thoughts you're already becoming positive, time is a healer. Good luck my friend.
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Post by Marshy on Feb 9, 2017 6:34:03 GMT
Really sorry to hear this midland please keep posting it may help take your mind off things. I lost my mother 2 years ago and it was devastating and much like yourself it did affect me badly with the people closest to me.
Things will get better, chin up mate UTG!
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Post by Hugo the Elder on Feb 9, 2017 6:43:43 GMT
Top man.
Takes a lot to post that.
Good luck mate, there is more help out there (and dare I say here) than you realize.
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Post by gasstrictband on Feb 9, 2017 7:14:07 GMT
Please try to be strong , keep safe , your family is the most important people in your life , when you are at your lowest point , good luck for the future mate.
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Post by madgas on Feb 9, 2017 7:32:37 GMT
Fair play to you sir,
Stay strong- and talk to people.
Big respect,
Madgas
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Post by philbemmygas on Feb 9, 2017 7:39:33 GMT
Midland
I can safely say mate that you are not alone with your problem, as Hugo says there is support within this forum for anybody suffering.
We all like a bit of jocularity, but will all pull together to support each other in a crisis.
If you need a chat mate always here to oblige.
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Post by pucklegas on Feb 9, 2017 7:45:06 GMT
Midland hope things start to ease, having suffered the shock loss of two parents I know how you are feeling, think of the good times with your Dad, and I felt alcohol made me feel worse, thinking of you at this sad time.
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Post by althepirate on Feb 9, 2017 7:48:41 GMT
A brave post Midland. At the moment I'm sure you don't feel strong, but believe me your are and that courage will get you through it. Here on pm if you need a chat,take care, Al
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Post by midlandgas213 on Feb 9, 2017 7:54:30 GMT
What a response thank you all I know we are one family of gasheads and your thoughts and comments help and yes I am getting help both medically and socially I just felt that I needed to apologies to you all for the daft stuff I was posting
Thank you all
Utg
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Post by blackthorngas on Feb 9, 2017 7:59:42 GMT
You always hurt the ones you love. True family and friends will be able to see beyond that.
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Post by LJG on Feb 9, 2017 8:11:56 GMT
Great bravery. Well done.
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